Bridging Hearts and Minds:
Rediscovering Partnership Together
Once Upon a Time…
"Why does every conversation turn into a misunderstanding?"
"How did we drift so far apart?"
"I'm trying to improve things, but it only seems to get worse."
"I feel more alone in this relationship than if I were actually alone."
"After a long day, I come home to arguments and feel unappreciated."
"I'm always looking after others. When is it my turn to be cared for?"
"I'm constantly trying to keep the peace, walking on eggshells.
… You and your partner enjoyed a vibrant, fulfilling relationship. What seemed like a storybook beginning has since encountered its share of challenges. Are you feeling more like roommates or business associates rather than the intimate partners you once were? If you're nodding along, you might be wrestling with thoughts like:
The Reality of Long-Term Relationships
Life, with its myriad pressures like work stress, parenting, chronic illness, and past trauma, can strain even the strongest of bonds. When one or both partners navigate the world with distinct neurotypes—be it Autism, ADHD, high sensitivity, or dyslexia—the usual relationship challenges can feel amplified. Misunderstandings become more frequent, and feeling connected becomes a Herculean task.
I'm Dr. Erin Findley
In my journey from feeling isolated and disconnected within my first marriage to seeking a deeper more fulfilling connection in my second, I've learned the critical importance of understanding relationship dynamics -- and the impact neurodiversity has on a couple’s interactions. My deep-dive into understanding mixed-neurotype couples has equipped me with insights into navigating and enhancing these unique partnerships. Now, I'm dedicated to helping couples like you navigate these challenges, igniting a renewed sense of connection and understanding.
Bridging Your Worlds
If you believe your relationship holds untapped depth and connection, you're right. Yet, finding the way from disconnection to a rekindled bond can seem daunting, especially when it feels like you're worlds apart.
Here's How I Can Help:
In our fast-paced world, I offer you and your partner a moment to pause, deeply explore your feelings and experiences, and share them with each other in clear, honest, and open ways. We'll uncover the roots of your conflicts and learn how to navigate back to each other, even when the odds seem stacked against you.
Embark on Your Journey to Connection
Navigating a mixed-neurotype relationship brings unique challenges, but also the opportunity for profound understanding and closeness. If you're ready to explore how we can strengthen your partnership and rediscover the joy in your connection, I'm here to guide you.
